Many INFPs are known for their ability to be good listeners and loyal supporters to loved ones, friends, and acquaintances who are going through tough times. These are great qualities that truly come in handy to those in need of a nonjudgmental and empathetic supporter. But these wonderful qualities can also attract extremely selfish people who crave a companion who will feed their damaged egos. Some of these people who are attracted to the seemingly gentle INFP may be narcissists. They are obsessed with powerful feel they're better than "average people," have a sense of entitlement, and tend to be jealous of others. They might love having an INFP in their lives as a cheerleader, but they won't always be kind to them. At some point, on a bad day, they'll likely use their favorite cheerleader as a punching bag- figuratively or literally. INFPs can avoid these damaging relationships by setting healthy boundaries with other people. This can be accomplished by letting others know that even though you love them you cannot give them all of your time. Set aside time every day for your own needs. And if this upsets someone, that may be a warning sign that their relationship with you is unhealthy. In some cases, you might realize that for your own well-being, you need to love certain people from a distance. This means wishing them well, but refusing to allow them into your home and social life as doing so would be a threat to your well-being. This is tough, but you have to protect yourself. If you're not okay, how will be fit to help the people you care about? Please feel free to share your thoughts on the subject in the comments section of the YouTube video below!
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Suppose you've taken a personality test and received "INFP" as a result, but you're not sure that it's an accurate portrayal of your personality? If that's the case, you may be on to something. It's been noted that INFPs and INFJs are often mistaken for one another. This is understandable as they're both deeply sensitive individuals with strong creativity and a great capacity for empathy. But there are a couple of differences between the two personality types. INFJS are analytical and pragmatic INFJ's are often seen as more structured and analytical. And though they often have an uncanny ability to understand the emotions of others, they sometimes struggle to identify and understand their own emptions. INFPs are highly creative and in touch with their feelings On the other hand, INFPs don't typically have a problem labeling and understanding the roots of their deepest emotions. They're also typically perceived as incredibly creative and spontaneous. So, if you think you may have been misidentified, it couldn't hurt to take the test again! Please feel free to share your thoughts on the subject in the comments section of the YouTube video below! Many INFPs are naturally gifted artists who excel at painting, acting, writing and other creative pursuits. They're also typically very empathetic idealists who often go out of their way to make life easier for the people they care about. That said, everyone has areas for growth and a number of INFPs may note that they have potential in areas related to appropriate self-care and becoming more detail oriented. Appropriate self-care When it comes to self-care, some experts note that INFPs can devote their full focus to a project, a cause or to the needs of a loved one. The intensity of the INFP's focus can lead to a lack of personal self-care. They might forget to eat, forgo sleep, and put off their own mental health/emotional needs. This can be dangerous if left unchecked. To resolve the issue, an INFP might organize their daily life by creating a calendar or to-do list with appropriate time slots for meals, sleep, fitness, and consistent doctor's appointments. In addition to this, it would be great if the INFP made time to talk their feelings out with a good friend or a trusted relative. Becoming more detail-oriented INFP's tend to focus on the big picture, which is often a positive way to view life. But details matter too, and sometimes when our "lens" is too wide, we forget to take care of the seemingly minor aspects of a big project. Truity.com says, "No matter how wonderfully inventive a new idea might be, it won't get anywhere if the logistical details required to put it into practice are ignored or neglected." So, INFPs who are focused on self-growth in this area will bite the bullet and address the boring details of a project or idea. If you're an INFP, what areas of self-growth have you conquered? Please feel free to share your experiences in the comments section of the YouTube video below! If you're trying to win your favorite INFP's heart, one or more of the five suggestions below just might work for you! Skip the chit chat and go straight to deep conversations. INFPs typically hate idle chit chat as much as they adore discussing heavy topics. Be sincere, even if you're afraid they'll judge you. Healthy INFPs value honesty and try to understand perspectives that are different from their own. Additionally, they can usually see through insincerity, and it turns them off. Compliment their principles, where possible. Many INFPs value their moral beliefs but feel misunderstood for holding so firmly to their principles. So, show them that you appreciate their integrity. Show fellow feeling Most INFPs fall for people who have no trouble showing empathy or kindness. Share yourself and gently encourage them to do the same Talk to them about your childhood, share your favorite books, movies, and memories. Then, encourage them to do the same at their own pace. I hope these suggestions help you to win your INFP's heart. If you have any thoughts on the topic, please feel free to leave them in the comments section of the related YouTube video below! |
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